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Sunday, 5 February 2012

8 Signs Of A Bad Relationship.

Saw this somewhere and said to share . . . as
my val present to you all:
Knowing the signs of a bad relationship is
just the beginning. Knowing how to end a
bad relationship is just as important and can
be a lot more difficult.
We noticed that every bad relationship gives
off red flags, but most of us are either too in
love to see it, too naive to notice, or to scare
to do something about it.
Communication Problems In Relationships:
If you are not able to communicate with
your partner you should look at who is and
who is not talking. Communication is the
foundation on which any relationship
should be built. However, the wrong type of
communication can be destructive, which
leads to number two.
Constantly Arguing Couples:
If every other conversation ends up in an
argument something is wrong. No it’s not
because you left the toilet seat up or you
cooked chicken instead of steak. Those are
just surface issues. You have to sit with you
partner and find out the root of the
problem.
Distance:
If you are not as close as you once were it’s
a definite warning sign. “Absence makes the
heart grow fonder”, but to much time apart
can cause one to forget. Remember you can
be in the same room with someone and still
have a world of distance between you.
Use all sorts of resources. If you love your
partner, try, but pay attention for your well
being if it is worth it or not. Only you know
if you may be in for a breakup battle! Trust
your heart and your spirit.
Going Places Without You:
Everyone needs a little alone time, but if your
partner always wants to go places without
you Pay Close Attention to why.
Lying:
This is self-explanatory. In my opinion this is
#1 of all the signs of a bad relationship. You
know better than anyone when your
partner is lying. Honesty in a relationship is
the lifeblood in your lifeline!
Cheating in Relationships:
Personally, I believe that true love won’t
allow you to cheat, but people make
mistakes and God says to forgive…so I shall
leave the rest of that thought to you. There
are a lot of cheat codes and rules to what
different people consider cheating. Discuss
this with your partner and live by them.
Abusive Relationships:
Like cheating everyone can make a mistake,
but if a person has to hit you to show how
much they love you that’s the kind of love
you don’t need, and one of the signs of a
bad relationship that can not be ignored.
Trust In Relationships:
This is a touchy one. Most often people who
can not trust are not trust worthy people.
Again no one knows your partner better
than you.

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